@Ellen Norton - I went just to see and agree with you. I found the whole set up to be nearly impossible. It looks like Poly on the create page and that is about it. I couldn't find items and it was not easy to find friends. Other than the cutting tool.... which I don't use much. Will be staying here for the foreseeable future!
I saw where you tried Urstyle. I also tried it because they have the cutting tool....but unfortunately, except for the cutting tool, the site is lacking in so many areas, and their uploading option is horrible. Oh well, I think TrendMe, so far, is the best place for us. Maybe ChicVore, when they are up and ready, will work out. We'll see.
